The few questions that comes into mind are;
- Time factor - why now?
- Triggering factor - what happened?
- Effect -how do the previous receiving party adjust to this new personality?
The acceptance level by the existing receiving party is important in order to maintain the relationship built over the period in the past and surely there will be a few adjustment on expectations to concur.
Personally if I feel that this relationship is nothing to be bothered about, I wouldn't have given a slight impetuous thought on this discovery. When the relationship has become too personal and in-depth, it is time for me to make an adjustment on how I will face this changes in the future - to either accept it as it is or to accept it as it is. Constant reminder on the need in looking at the bright side of things will make it easier for me to accept the fact that PEOPLE DO CHANGE. Whether it is for the better or worse, it is up to me to decide on which angle I want to look at it.
From now on, time will be rough on me for this new challenge and job that I'm facing would not be easy. I like the challenge though I think I deserve to be treated better for my knowledge. I know I should not expect too much as my age is still somewhat a determinant on my level of competency in my field.
It is always about acceptance in life. Cheerios~~~
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